Going to a formal performance or concert is nothing like a sports event or competition. In order to be respectful and support the audience, the best thing you can do is make sure you are using the proper concert etiquette.
What to Wear
When going to a formal performance or concerts, Sunday best is always the best choice. Not too hot or too cold.
Girls: A simple dress, skirt, dress pants, or even nice jeans(no holes) with a blouse would be simple and appropriate. Some times auditoriums can be cold so it would me smart to bring a light sweater or jacket.
Guys: A good pair jeans with out holes or khakis with a nice shirt(no T Shirts) like a polo or simple dress shirt would be ideal. With dress shoes or work shoes instead of tennis shoes. I would not advise you to wear a hat, but if you do be sure to take it off before entering auditorium.
When buying tickets keep in mind young children. If you will have a young child who may cry or have a fit during a performance, please sit on an edge seat so that you may exit the auditorium as quickly as possible so not to disturb the performers or other audience members.Before even leaving your house make sure you have the tickets with you so you aren’t struggling to get back in time. Please use the restroom before finding your seat. No one likes having to stand up in the middle of a performance because the person in the center of the row has to use the restroom.The isles between seats are always really tight. Don’t be the person who blocks the aisle with your coat, huge purse, and umbrella. When finding your seat the letter refers to the row and the number refers to the seat. If you are struggling to find your seat find someone who works there to help, don’t just sit in a random seat. Some performance halls have a concessions stand to buy snack Or drinks to eat during the performance. So be sure to stop by to get something before entering the auditorium (make sure food is allowed in the auditorium). The best performance venues have a coat and bag check. Use them.
During the Performance
Before a performance begins, often times the lights will dim. This is your signal to end your conversations, turn off your phone and pay attention. When the performers or musicians enter the stage, do not wave, shout, or yell as the p (even if its your daughter). Be sure to pay attention to any announcements before the show. If you plan to record or take pictures during the performance make sure that it is allowed.
There is nothing worst than getting stuck in front of a couple that wont stop talking or the young child who thinks its okay to put their feet on or kick the back of your seat. Please try to save your comments until after the performance and make sure neither you nor your children are not shuffling your feet or moving throughout the performance.
At the end of each piece, you should applause respectively but do not whistle, yell, or shout out names. Sometimes a the band will stop playing as if it was the end of the song, but some pieces of music have multiple parts or sections called movements. Before the performance, it is smart to read through the program and take note of any pieces with multiple movements because you are not supposed to clap between movements. If there is no formal program, (or in the odd chance you didn’t get one) an easy way to know when to clap is when the conductor steps off of his podium or box and faces the audience.
After the Performance
At the end of the program, your level of enthusiasm and clapping represents your appreciation for the performance. If you really enjoyed the performance, a standing ovation is more than acceptable and highly recommended. In many professional performances, an encore performance has been prepared. If you enjoyed the performance so much that you would like to hear more, keep standing and continue clapping with the same intensity after the group or soloist exits the stage. After the encore you should give another standing ovation, but when the group leaves the stage, you should gather your things and leave. Don’t rush, but the longer you hang around and talk in the auditorium the longer the people who work there have to stand around before cleaning up. With that in mind if you got concessions during the performance, please take your trash out with you and throw it away.
Hope this helped! Enjoy listening to music and seeing live performances!